I’m not that same BITCH you married
We are done letting other people steal our power and voice!
Yesterday I told you how beautiful it was to witness my client’s growth and watch her find her voice.
When she first came to me, she was angry, sad, and depressed.
Her husband had walked away, was with another woman and he wanted a divorce.
A part of her wanted him back.
She prayed that they would get back together.
One time he came to her and asked for changes to the separation terms.
A huge part of her didn’t want to do it, but she wanted him back.
She went against herself, caved, and he got what he wanted.
But baby, that was the last time for him because she met me.
I don’t play that. No ma’am.
We are done letting other people steal our power and voice!
After years of hurting it can hopeless like you’re never get to the otherside and feel powerful again. But that’s not true.
To regain our power, we have to heal.
We have to have the space to cry, grieve, be angry, be sad, all of it.
As I took her through my Radical Forgiveness, self-love, and inner child work, she was able to heal, release the pain, and regain her power and voice.
Wouldn’t you know it, the Universal test came along.
Her ex showed up at her job with more demands.
She told him no, but he kept pushing. Expecting her to cave.
Guess what?
This time she didn’t budge.
That day she said,
“I said NO. I’m not that same BITCH you married. Now leave!”
When she told me that, I screamed so loud my cat ran out of the room.
A few months later, she was divorced.
She changed her last name immediately and continued her journey of loving herself and staying in her power.
This is what us lightworkers are here to do on this planet.
We’re here to change lives, touch hearts, inspire, motivate, and heal the people we’re here to help.
If you know you’re here to help people heal but fear keeps stopping you from showing up, I’m here.
Just remember, you didn’t go through the tough times, the programs, and the certifications to keep all that wisdom to yourself.
It’s meant to move through you and create an impact.
Much love,
Essence
P.S.
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This isn’t a course you take alone. It’s private one-on-one support where we work directly with your nervous system, so showing up online stops feeling like something you have to force.
Because you have medicine people need. And we’re going to get it out of you.
You get access at a reduced investment as we build and document the process together.
If you’re one of the 3, reply to this email or click the button to learn more about the program.



